What do you think your destiny or fate is?

You may have heard people saying " Your fate is to be a doctor or an engineer, that's your destiny" but have you ever tried to find out the real meaning of these particular words. Your answer will be "No. I haven't". Have you ever asked yourself why you have accepted your fate or destiny as a doctor or an engineer when your mother or father told you so? The answer would be the Same!. Let me tell you why. Nowadays people are busy running a rat race after money, fame and power. They have decided which job is the most prestigious one and well renowned. But my dear friends have you ever thought under what criteria they have classified the jobs in the world? Of  course there are multiple criteria s under which jobs in today world are classified. But if you take a closer look at them you would realize that they are only the thoughts and tastes of the rich! If you ask the question" What would be your child's fate?" from a burglar lady she will give you this answer." Oh if god shows his kindness on us my child would bring us food and some money today"

Yes it is true that everyone in this world wants to become a hero to his family, to the world but in which way? Which job will help them to reach our destiny? There is only one answer for that question."Do what you love to do""Do what your heart tells you to do" Don't do things that you don't like just to please your parents and teachers. Parents and teachers must guide the students, their children to achieve what they love instead of forcing them to be what modern society calls"Prestigious".No one knows their fate nor these two words are ever defined correctly. The concept of destiny reflects the idea - no matter how hard we work you'll be a looser. We are not the controller of our life nor ourselves.So guys destiny is written on how you lead you life in this world. It is written on the things you do and don't! You create your destiny. If your ambitions are good god will also help you. I remember a person  called NICK VUJICICK saying" when you fall down so hard in life and think you don't have the courage to get up you will be caught in the Storm. The person who tries over and over again and never give up will pass through the storm without a scratch" That  means never give up reaching out what you love to be!

So guys in this article I tied to correct some superstitious beliefs in your mind about fate and destiny. Only thing that you can take from this post is the idea that "You are the writer of your own destiny and you must find it before writing it" Finally I like to state one statement that I learned in the last term at British Council.

 "Stay Hungry, stay foolish"